Give a Flower Gift with a Twist

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Give a Flower Gift with a Twist
by Kori Puckett

Okay, so you've waited until the last minute. Or you've
tried really hard but have drawn a blank and can't seem to
think of any good wedding anniversary gifts.

It's time to pull out that bag of traditional romantic
gift ideas. And this time you've decided to go with
flowers, maybe even roses. But that doesn't have to be the
end of it. You can still make an impression, big time.

Spice up those traditional wedding anniversary gifts (or
gifts for any occasion) easily. You can get romantic gifts
online that present a unique, creative spin to the old
standby bouquet of flowers.

For example, have your pick of a rose dipped in gold or
silver...or even chocolate. They won't cost you an arm and
a leg, either!

Sometimes it's not the gift you give, but the way you
present it that really sticks in the mind of the receiver.
Here are just some ideas on how you can use those
traditional flower anniversary gifts and make a lasting
impression...

* Take some flowers and break off the petals. Let the
petals fall on the floor around the room. Then light some
candles, take a spin around the room to their favorite easy
listening song, you get the picture.
You could also substitute scented, freeze dried flower
petals.

Make a crown of flowers to present to your King or Queen
for a Day.

* Give a flower from the bouquet one at a time throughout
the day. One in the morning when they wake up, one lying on
the bed waiting when they get out of their morning shower,
one waiting in the car when they go to work, etc.

*Have the flowers delivered by mail. Or at the workplace
instead of giving them at home. Not only will you make an
impression on your significant other, you'll make their co-
workers jealous!

Use your imagination. Even the simplest touch can make
traditional wedding anniversary gifts like flowers even
more special.

Kori Puckett is the web mistress of GoGiftGuides.com: gift
ideas, tips, and guides for creative and unique romantic
gifts. You can find more romantic gift ideas in
GoRomanticGifts at http://www.GoGiftGuides.com.

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No Kids at the Wedding Please - How to Say it Tastefully
by Robin Williams

As much as you love your nieces, nephews and even your own children, some of you know that an otherwise perfect day can be tarnished by a misbehaving little one. You don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so what should you do? If you don't mind kids at your wedding, then this article is not for you. If your are in the other group, read on...

If you are reading this you are probably afraid of being labeled as selfish or a child hater, but this is your day. You planned for it, paid for it and deserve to have it the way you want. Even if you are being selfish, having paid a few thousand dollars or more says you have right to be!

Well enough of the pep talk. You must be open and honest from the very beginning. Waiting to long in fear of causing trouble will only make matters worse and leave you feeling even more "guilty" when some people were expecting to bring their little ones from the start. Most people will understand and some have asked it for their own weddings, but there are still a few that need to be told. Here are some of the ways to get the message across early:

1. Send it with the invitation. That right. You could put it on a separate card and make a reference to it being an adults only event. You may not want to say "no kids please" because the words "adults only" is less likely to be seen negatively.

2. Call each and every person who you believe is coming and be honest and upfront. Don't take too long with the small talk and try to end on a positive note. It would also be a good idea to have babysitters in a separate room at the wedding in case someone forgets or just had to bring little Mark.

3. On that same note. If you just don't want to feel like you are a kid-hater, just make a point to have babysitters at your wedding. This way no one will feel left out or "betrayed". You still have to contend with those parents AND children that have separation anxiety. You will have to make sure to tell them that if they plan to bring children with them, they must be placed with the babysitter you or they have provided, in a separate room, no exceptions. Having a room with toys and bright colors could peak a child's interest, but there is no gauruntee.

3. Use psychology. The statement, "This is a day to enjoy yourself too. Leave the kids at home (with our babysitter)", will definitely bring some of those not-so-understanding parents to your corner. The parents with the most misbehaved kids will be the first to identify with this statement.

If all else fails, just remember the important thing is that you are marrying the one you love and that nothing can change that!

Victoria Williams

www.nuptialparadise.com

Victoria Williams is the editor of the online magazine Wedding Planning From Wedding Dresses to Receptions - www.nuptialparadise.com